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05/13/2008

women

I believe I have my own limitations. I am a woman.

And being a woman, you dont set the same priorities with men.

And being a woman, you have bigger responsibilities at home. At some point I think I own the domestic tasks. Because ah well, lets face it. Admit, I am perfectionist.

When married, there are bigger issues. Like children. Money. Education. Assets.

Some women also supports the family and some of my friends for example, become the breadwinner of the family. Some, pity them, the husband are being very bising about providing the money to their wife because they believe she also have her own source of income. What is so wrong about spending on your wife and children rather than spending for your own because in the end, pahala nya sangat besar. What is wrong about that anyway?

Sorry, get too carried away. A friend just came and had some issues on this. In those years in the uni I remember being very vocal about this.But then, I wish things could be better for women. When we have a good opportunity to earn our money and spend it too.

Honestly, I dont mind spending for the household. Living under the same roof, its alright sharing. But then some people misuse the whole point of sharing. I cant understand these people anyway.

With that,I arrest my case.

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03/25/2008

satu hari di Apartment

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check out the menu book first...

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me...waiting for the food to arrive... ;-)

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hariah, savouring the cupcakes,yummy!!

 

 

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chatting on a day bed.

 

 

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kenyang!

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01/11/2008

hearing the wedding bells..again

i was the first among my girlfriends who started this wedding hype last year.
 
and finally, in 2008, most of my girlfriends are ready to walk down the aisle and settle down.
 
its good to initiate, now that I don't have to worry about my wedding, I could just simply help them out with some crazy ideas of my own.
 
hariah is very fond of the tiffany colour, very soft turquiose blue and I suggested her to create a tiffany theme wedding.
like breakfast at tiffany...full of glitter,  crystal clear blue sky in the morning that serenades the nikah ceremony and
very romantic reception later... the venue are to be set later this year.
 
so, one is talking about her tiffany inspired ceremony, another is hinting one of the days in august as her engagement day to an old buddy and the other is dreaming about making a small wedding reception , sunflower yellow deco at a nice cosy bungalow restaurant in the city. Phew! so much for the listening to their stories, I think it will be a great year for wedding this year!
 
there will be more shopping trips this year  for them. I guess I could also make a few trips soon, a high street shopping treat!
 
Awesome! ( well actually me and hariah already check out the Coach boutique, need to get it direct in NYC, its cheaper there,heheh.)
 
and the new craze for online hunting begins....
 

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07/12/2007

the goss girls

we have a thing about discussing the current love life status.

yesterday we meet up, at Bangsar.

Doing a mamak session while blurting out a few dangerous confessions.

Hey listen, I found myself a toyboy. 

Hah? You do? Tell me about it, I said.

So there we were, two of us got engaged. One is planning not to and head straight to walk the aisle after the return of her long distance relationship with her boyfriend. And me busy with endless appointments. wedding card la. My fitting la..his fitting la... outstation la...endless...endless.

My friend asked me, is it wrong to have this secret affair? but he's engaged you know. He's planning a wedding in February. but he likes me and I like him. in fact, we liked each other so much that we call each other sayang.

We don't care.

Haha.. I smiled. Point taken, girl. It's always fun to flirt , me and Ezri flirted like crazy before we moved on to the dating phase. 

we still did now. sometimes.

should she continue to pursue this? I said,  I didn't flirt for fun, only/It's because I've already set priorities to it.

I mean, I want that to end with something secure, like a marriage. But I just got lucky with this guy, he happens to be the one for me.

You are a different story,era. You always know what you want. You feel connected to him somehow. You are certain.

 We are not. We're just plain confused.

And so I asked my friend, the engaged one.

So when are you gonna dump the guy? haha..its cruel I know.We all agreed that you should do that please. it makes us happy.

Can we asked him to dump you if you didn't? 

another personal unintended attack to her. But again, this is how we are. I'm just genuinely concern. That's all.

Yeah, said the other girl,

we could always hook you up with someone, provided that you have to be single and if not,declare yourself you're not engaged. Who needs to know about that engagement anyway?

Gosh, sometimes it feels cruel. It could be worse actually.

Ok, stop it right there.

 

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